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My names Joey. I'm 31
years old and I'm looking for a boyfriend to start a relationship with.
Here's my story:
I grew up in a musical family. Mom was the organist and choir director for
dad's church. I started playing violin in 2nd grade, at home with a
private teacher. I have quite the knack for it. I just enjoy it as a way
to express myself, it wasn't too much of a passion. Growing up as the
preachers kid was very sheltering. Most decisions were not left to me
because it was assumed by mother, that i could never make the proper
decisions for myself. She ruled my childhood with an iron fist,
while Dad was busy with his church. Also, in 2nd grade I was mis-
diagnosed with ADHD and put on Ritalin, bad choice to give a kid speed,
and the weekly trips to the shrink never helped. They tried putting me
in some cookie- cutter picture of someone with a mental disorder, when I
was just a fun loving energetic kid. Now being drug free for these past
years has given me the clarity to realize I'm not chemically imbalanced
at all. It's just part of my personality. Later on in childhood I took
up piano, but only to compete with my older brother,. We never got
along, still can't figure that one out. Btw, he's gay too, quite
interesting since were both adopted from separate backgrounds. He's the
stable one with his live in boyfriend and the house. I'm happy for them.
Music rules my world. My first love will always be classical music because
of my violin and piano background. More recently I've expended into
classic rock and 70's disco. Electronic a took control of my life when i
saw the video for Madonna's Ray of light. Soon my featured artist's were
Madonna, Daft punk, aqua, kylie, minogae, Paul Oaken fold, DJ Tiesto and
any of the early 2,000's dance compilations I could get my hands on. Now
a days, anything with a fast beat that I can shake my body to, and feel
good about life, naturally is all i need to listen to. I absolutely Love
Ke$ha's new track: Your Love Is My Drug! I'm big into reading classic
literature right now, Robinson Crusoe, Great expectations, Grapes of
Wrath are only a few I've read off my massive list. I didn't read in
high school, so now I'm very enthused to learn and read more. History is
fascinating too, The decline And Fall OF The Roman Empire reignited my
interest in ancient cultures like the Greeks, Romans, and Persians. I'm
one of these hopeless types that thinks he's got vocal talent, but most
likely Simon Cowell would boot my mediocre ass off stage. I always
wanted to try out every year. Now it passes the time for me to sing to
the radio, or to the one Broadway musical i know by heart Rent. It's the
only musical I ever saw on Broadway in New York City. singing's another
great way for me to express myself. Palmistry, Numerology, and astrology
are great ways to learn about someone's authentic- self. I haven't
read enough on them yet. I was taught a little about Palmistry at a great
retreat called California Men's Gathering. good times! Numerology
I've only heard about recently on the AM radio show Coast to Coast.
There's a cool show for the Paranormal! Now Astrology has been a
fascination of mine since I first heard about it. I've always had
difficulty figuring out who I' am because I was too busy being whatever
anyone else around me wanted me to be, Never being allowed to make
my own decisions, never developing a sense of self because it was too
easy for me to be a chameleon of whomever i was around. It my time to
learn about me without all the mixed up psycho- babble of my up
bringing. I'm an Aquarius, born in Los Angeles on 2-10-1979 at 11;33 am.
very full of life and living life to the fullest, even while in prison,
which rubs people the wrong way because they are always trying to
seem so miserable. Haters hate it when you smile and make the best out
of a bad situation. And haters make me me famous because then my name
gets out there for everyone to know, so I welcome it.
until i got to Tucson in Aug 09, my prison time had been in a constant
state of flux. I've been down since Aug 06 and never stayed in one place
too long, not by my choice of course. most of it's because I'm gay and
not willing to sell myself, i have far too much self- respect. I will
say that I naively thought prison was going to be full of hot white
guys, just like on the TV docs, that would welcome me in with open arms
so not the case. Even though I'm not racist, prison is. And there are a
very many unspoken ridiculous rules that i must follow or suffer the
consequences. As a rule, I'm only to associate with white guys, which is
great because that's who I'm used to socializing with. But 95 percent of
these guy's are scared to be seen talking to me, they are worried their
homies will think we are having sex! Funny huh ? So lots of them
wouldn't try to talk to me. And I'm not about to go back into the closet
for anyone, it's dark in there. Lying is even worse when they figure it
out later, so it's a double edged sword.
Even being gay is different in prison. So far I've seen most of the gays
are technically pre- op- transsexuals or guys that were forced into the
lifestyle for monetary Gaines or protection. then there's the men that
fuck them, but they still consider themselves straight. Confused? I was
I'm a rare breed, I came to prison with my flame burning. I have a very
clean cut look that translates to them as gay because in prison if
you take care of your looks hair especially, you must be gay. Another
weird prison concept. What I'm looking for is a boyfriend that's at
least 30 years old, and of any race. please be funny, and sincere, no
games because I'm very honest and expect the same in return. I've been
so lonely these past few years. I have no one to share my thoughts with.
Prison is not the place to create too many friendships. I'm doing the
best I can with my situation. Yes, I made a stupid mistake that put me
here, but that doesn't define me as bad person. While I'm being
honest... I'm in need of a boyfriend to take care of me financially too.
I'm willing too relocate when I get out. I'm very much a people person,
and am looking for someone to connect with. Please send only G rated
pics, and only send them through regular postal mail. Thanks Well that's
a bunch about me, now it's your turn, I hope to hear from you soon.
I will respond to all serious letters.
   
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